about me
28-year-old woman living in NYC (Brooklyn/Queens). Cybersecurity girl, former film/screen studies person, current internet creature. I like weird media, technology, good food, shitty horror movies, and spending an unreasonable amount of time with someone I like.
I’m independent, affectionate, and genuinely curious about people. I value honesty, emotional maturity, and a sense of humor. I can be intense, but in a fun way (most of the time).
what I’m looking for
A boyfriend! Ideally 26–34, in or near NYC.
- Emotionally available and interested in a real relationship
- Intelligent / nerdy / curious about the world
- Kind, respectful, and consistent
- Has hobbies, friends, and a life outside of the relationship
- Good communicator (actually texts back)
- Affectionate
- Enjoys both staying in and going out
- Open to deep conversations, dumb jokes, and shared interests
- Not afraid of a girl who has strong opinions
dealbreakers
- Not interested in casual hookups, situationships, or poly
- Avoidant attachment styles
- Poor communication
- Bigotry of any kind
- Men who can’t take a joke
- People who aren’t ready for a relationship
